“Therefore do not
worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough
trouble of its own.” —Matthew 6:34
Have you been to the cemetery yet this year? Some of
you haven’t a clue what I am speaking about, but many of you who have lost
loved ones and are feeling terribly sad and lonely know exactly what I mean.
Have you decorated the graves of your departed loved one or friend? Darlene and
I didn’t personally visit any graves so far this year, but we did send some
flowers to be placed on my father-in-law’s tombstone.
As I work on a sermon about loneliness, a Roy Orbison
song keeps creeping into my head. Although I am not really an Orbison fan, (I
only know one other song by him, Pretty
Woman.) the song, Only the Lonely, keeps
coming to mind. The lyrics describe our human condition while validating a
biblical and psychological truth. The lyrics state that only another lonely
person can truly understand how I feel tonight because my love has left me. The
song focuses on living with the past pain of loss in the present with a glimmer
of hope for future love. The past broken heart, “Only the lonely know the
heartaches I’ve been through. Only the lonely know I cried and cried for you.”
The future hope, “Maybe tomorrow, a new romance, no more sorrow.”
These lyrics sound hopeful, but they come out of a
romantic and earthly rather than Biblical worldview. Many folks who struggle
with grief and loneliness try to live more than one day at a time. They attempt
to live yesterday, today, and tomorrow all at the same time. As they grieve
over past losses and look forward to the next perfect lover who will make their
life complete, they never really get around to living in the present.
Jesus said, “Do not worry about, tomorrow, for
tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.” God
does not give us grace for tomorrow; He only gives us enough grace for today.
Tomorrow may never come, and when it does, we can trust God to provide grace
enough for that “today” as well. Psalm 118 records, “This is the day which the Lord has made; Let us rejoice and be glad in it”
(vs. 24). God has given us blessings today to enjoy and celebrate. If we dwell
on the losses of the past, we will miss God’s grace and the joy in the present.
If we only focus on searching for some future Mr. or Mrs. Right, we will miss
friends and family around us today.
Have you given yourself permission to enjoy today? God
has. Jesus gave Himself on the Cross to take away your past sins and sorrows.
Jesus prayed in the upper room that His joy might be in us (John 17:1). If you
are dwelling in the past, you miss many of the joys and blessings of the present.
Have
you stopped worrying about the future? Jeremiah 29:11 tells us the God has
prepared a future for us full of hope and blessing. If we will trust God to
take care of our future, we can begin to truly live an abundant, Spirit-filled
life in the present. Eternal, abundant life begins now. Today is the day of
Salvation. So give yourself and those around you a break. Stop trying to live
yesterday, today, and tomorrow all at the same time. Enjoy today, walk with Jesus,
and love and serve those around you. Only those enjoying today can truly
experience the joy of the Lord as their strength.